Resources Collected Along the Way, Shared for Your Journey
Whether you're seeking answers or just starting the journey of parenting a neurodivergent child, you’ll find information that’s clear, kind, and helpful. We understand how many questions can come up when looking for autism support for immigrant families, and how hard it can be to know where to begin. That’s why we’re here to connect you with resources for parents of autistic children and guide you toward supportive communities that truly understand.
What to do when something feels off
Why Early Intervention is Important:
Early intervention taps into a child’s critical brain development window, boosting communication, social, and problem-solving skills. It lays a strong foundation for future learning, especially for children with delays or autism, and improves long-term outcomes. It also empowers families with tools to support their child’s growth and well-being.
Worried About Your Child’s Development?
Every child grows at their own pace, but if something feels off, trust your instincts. It’s okay to have questions. There are resources available to help you understand what might be going on and what steps you can take.
Concerned? Don’t Wait to Act
Noticing early signs of a developmental delay can make a big difference. Acting early gives you more time, options, and support to help your child thrive. The CDC offers clear guidance on what to look for and what steps to take.
Steps to Follow
Observation
Trust your instinct, refer to CDC developmental milestones.
Check the Resources Below
Speak with Peds
If you have any concerns about your child’s development, trust your instincts and bring them up during your next visit—or schedule one sooner. You can talk about what you’ve noticed at home, ask questions, or share results from a CDC developmental screening. Pediatricians are there to listen, guide, and help you figure out the next steps. No concern is too small—your voice matters.
Your Next Steps, Age by Age
These services help coordinate free initial evaluations (non-medical developmental assessments, with interpreters available upon request) for your child and provide access to relevant therapies at no cost. The information below applies to the Western New York State region.
Ages 3–5
Contact your local school district’s Committee on Preschool Special Education (CPSE). If you're unsure where to find your district’s Special Ed department, call Special Ed Western Regional office 585-344-2002
If eligible, your child may receive services in a preschool or community setting. An Individualized Education Program (IEP) will be developed by the school district.
Ages 5+
Contact your local school district’s Committee on Special Education (CSE). If you're unsure where to find your district’s Special Ed department, call Special Ed Western Regional office 585-344-2002
If eligible, your child will receive school-based services through an Individualized Education Program (IEP), which may include classroom accommodations, therapies, or specialized instruction.
Schedule Comprehensive Evaluation in New York State
Note: Waitlists can be long. Ask your pediatrician to send a referral and begin the scheduling process as early as possible.
Recommended Providers in Greater Buffalo:
Oishei Autism Clinic Autism Spectrum Disorder Center | Care & Treatment | John R. Oishei Children's Hospital of Buffalo
Summit Center Diagnosing Autism - The Summit Center
What to Expect at an ASD evaluation (may vary by providers):
Initial Evaluation (~1 hour): May result in a provisional diagnosis, or a full diagnosis if clear.
Formal Evaluation (2–3 hours): Conducted by two separate providers. Wait time is typically 6–18 months. Many children receive a formal diagnosis after age 3, but timeline can vary.
After Formal Diagnosis
Receiving a diagnosis is an emotional experience and different for each family. Take time to process but please know there’s more resources available for support - you’re not alone
Refer to any handouts/materials provided by the clinic/providers.
Special Education: submit a copy of Autism Report to your school district’s Special Ed dept (CPSE or CSE)
Autism Speaks - 100 day kits (Help you learn more about autism and how to access the services that your child needs) — CLICK HERE
OPWDD (Office for People with Developmental Disabilities) - highly recommended for children receiving multiple therapies. Benefit may include: Care coordination, Respite services, Medicaid as a secondary insurance, and potential funding available if eligible. To contact regional OPWDD regional Front Door Office, CLICK HERE
How to get service - Front Door brochure:
ENGLISH | CHINESESpecialized therapies not typically available from EIP/CPSE/CSE:
Feeding therapy - highly recommended for extreme picky eater or feeding challenges
Speech & Swallow therapy - focused on oral motor skills and safe swallowing
Practical support
NYS FMLA (New York State Family Medical Leave Act) and PFL (Paid Family Leave)
New York State Paid Family Leave
If you're employed and have a formal ASD diagnosis for your child, you may qualify for NYS Paid Family Leave - if you choose to go part-time or take leave to support your child’s therapy needs. It provides partial wage replacement for up to 12 weeks. While not full pay, it can ease the burden compared to unpaid leave.
Based on personal experience. Please check official sources or your employer’s HR dept for current details.
Meal prep services
To save time and reduce stress, here are some meal delivery options that have worked well for families: For Adults: Gobble, Blue Apron, HelloFresh; For Kids: Nurture Life, Little Spoon
These are shared based on personal experience and peer recommendations. Availability and suitability may vary.
House cleaning services
If it’s within your budget, occasional help with cleaning can free up time and energy. Consider local services or platforms like Care.com or Thumbtack to find trusted providers near you.
Shared based on personal and community experiences. Availability and quality may vary.
Meeting prep with Special Ed Committee in New York State
Helpful Media & Tools
Books
Grounding, insightful, and often deeply personal—these reads offer perspective, comfort, and renewed clarity for parents walking the path of neurodiversity.
Learning & Support
Trusted online courses and a directory of relevant organizations to help you build knowledge and access meaningful support.
Toys & Tools
From sensory play to visual aids, these hands-on resources bring structure, comfort, and joy into daily routines—helping children feel safe, engaged, and empowered at home.
Social Media
Follow these authentic voices for everyday encouragement, real-life experiences, and community wisdom shared by those living and working within the neurodiversity world.
Enrichment & Activities For On The Spectrum Children
Looking for local activities that support children on the spectrum? These programs and spaces offer inclusive, thoughtful experiences:
JCC Au-Some Swim Program – Private swim lessons at the Jewish Community Center of Greater Buffalo tailored to neurodivergent kids.
Explore & More Museum – Au-Some Evenings – Enjoy free admission, sensory-friendly activities, and quieter spaces. Registration required.
Get Air Sports - Special Time - offer a dedicated time for jumpers with special needs
Autism Nature Trail at Letchworth State Park – A beautiful outdoor trail designed with sensory and accessibility features in mind.
Danceability – A dance program for individuals with special needs of all ages and abilities.
The Strong Museum in Rochester – Interactive exhibits and play spaces with consideration for sensory needs.
NorthStar Special Needs Society - supports children with special needs through inclusive sports that foster growth and social connection.
Autism Services of WNY Resource List - A guide to local services, supports and organizations for families in Western New York.
Recreation and Leisure Service Directory - A directory from Parent Network of WNY to assist users in finding physical, social and creative opportunities of enrichment.
